Monday, February 9, 2009

Third Knitting Project: Baby Gnomey Hat

The birth of a baby is a universal call to knitters. This is something I have only very recently understood. So when I saw this post on the holy mecca of blogs, just a week after my midwife had her first baby, I decided to challenge myself and do my first knitting-in-the-round project: The Gnomey Hat. I went to our finest local yarn shop for the occasion and picked out this gorgeous self-striping yarn.
Apparently I am not the only one who is enamored with the little gnomey! At a Florida Friends of Midwives event over the weekend, two other mamas were caught knitting the same hat. See, Soule Mama? You are spreading joy, one set of needles at a time. I finished the hat last night and decided not to add the pom-poms (you're welcome, Rio). I like it just the way it is, and I'm sure the sweet little man will look adorable in it. I thought he might be asleep when I gave it to his mama (and he was), so little b's Ernie ball had to pose for me. ...and here is the actual little head that the hat will keep warm. Sweet dreams, darling one!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Tangerine Dreams

Living in Florida with children is a bountiful blessing. Sometimes we are reminded of that in the simplest of ways. We were gifted this gorgeous bowl of home-grown tangerines last week, and Big B cannot possibly gobble them up quickly enough. I am so glad. Papa just planted two tangerine trees in our backyard in December (a Murcott and a Dancy), and we will look forward to next winter's fruit for gifts of our own.

Big B loves the fine-motor challenge of peeling the tangerine by himself, with bonus points for leaving the fruit intact. And, as always the compassionate and caring big brother, he offers the first bite to little b, while their faithful companion awaits the remains.

Wednesday, February 4, 2009

Be Still, My Heart!

Big B had his first sewing lesson today--and he loved it! My cheeks hurt as I watched him carefully place the needle and pull it gently through the other side (gentleness is highly praised in our rough-and-tumble house).

I saw these heart pockets and they inspired me to buy felt and rick rack, though I wasn't sure how we would create them yet. Today the mood struck, and we cut the felt into pocket-y shapes. I had thought I'd sew the pockets on the hearts and let Big B glue rick-rack, buttons, etc. onto them. But in a flash of "he might actually like this--AND benefit from it!", I asked him if he'd like to try the sewing. He got so excited!

He was patient, careful, prideful and sweet, attentive and focused.

For ten whole minutes.

Monday, February 2, 2009

Village Project: Midwife to Mother (Part II)

The second sacred and secret project I've been working on was presented to my dear friend, and midwife to little b, this afternoon. It is such a special thing when a midwife has a baby. All of the energy she has given to so many families swirls around her throughout her pregnancy and birth. To try and embody this, the voice of the village put out the word for families who have been touched by this midwife to send in entries for a book that would be bound and given to her upon the birth of her first child. We received some beautiful, touching pages.
The beautiful painting for the cover was donated by the visionary, who is also a local fine artist and birth art creator. For the binding, I affixed canvas fabric to the backs of the painted art canvas covers, and inserted scrapbook screws through the fabric and all of the paper entries. This left the artwork in tact and allowed for additional entries in the future. For my own entry, I colored a mandala, which is what my midwife did with Big B while Papa and I labored with little b. I attached some photos of our birth and well wishes for her new family. These village projects, for both of the midwives that helped deliver our children, created to celebrate the births of their own children, presented on consecutive days...well, I am overwhelmed with emotion and grateful beyond belief. They have been so important in the lives of our family, and have created a village of other families empowered and nurtured to raise their children consciously.

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Village Project: Midwife to Mother (Part I)

It is nothing short of an honor to reveal the first of two sacred and secret projects I've been working on over the past moon: a quilt, created by my New Moon sisters and me, for our dear friend (and my midwife for Big B) who is 35 weeks pregnant with her second child. About two weeks ago, she decided to return to the States from her new home in Sweden to honor a ritual we in our circle hold very dear: the Mother Blessing.A Mother Blessing is an alternative to today's traditional Baby Shower. Rather than focusing on tangible gifts for the baby, a Mother Blessing allows the new mother to receive blessings from the women in her innermost circle. These blessings are to support her journey through labor, birth, and mothering the child to come. There are a series of ceremonies, my favorite of which comes just before the closing of the circle. We weave ourselves together using a ball of red yarn. This represents the blood lines that tie us together through generations of birthing women. Each of us is left with a bracelet or anklet to tie us to the birthing mother until her baby is born, when we 'cut the cord.' This ritual inspired the communal design of the quilt.
Rose called me one night shortly after we learned of our midwife's upcoming trip. She had this great idea to make a community quilt, something she's always wanted to do. Including the midwife, there are eight of us New Moon sisters. Rose and I discussed a simple nine block patchwork. This idea morphed with the involvement of the visionary, whose concept was to have our hands painted on the quilt, so that our midwife could feel our touch so far away.
After collecting all of the handprints in alternating colors, the visionary passed the squares back to Rose, who pieced the quilt top and border (her craftsmanship is stunning, I might add). She then returned the top to the visionary for her beautiful artistic embellishment, which really tied the pieces together cohesively. Each of our hands was identified by a unique symbol and painted with the print from the center square. Then it was my turn; I received the top and quilted it with a flannel backing.
I delivered the quilt sandwich back to Rose, along with a label with all of our names and a special dedication. Rose stitched the binding and the label onto the quilt, washed it (which softened it and gave it a great antiqued look), and wrapped it in brown paper tied with the red yarn. After presenting it to our midwife this afternoon, it was time for her handprint to join the circle.
From first stitch to last, this quilt was created in less than one week. And I am so proud to say that I had a hand in it. Literally.

Saturday, January 31, 2009

An Afternoon at the Firehouse

We have returned from the aforementioned birthday party at the firehouse. The children watched a fire safety video, explored every inch of the firehouse, heard a real dispatch call, took turns in the trucks and with the hoses, and capped it all off with sandwiches and cake from (appropriately) Firehouse Subs across the street. Big B had such a great time seeing his school friends on different turf...
...and little b explored the turf in a different way, picking his very first flower for me . It was a beautiful afternoon.

Inspiration: Children's Birthday Parties

Today the boys and I are gearing up for our almost-weekly S-day birthday party. We are so lucky to be a part of such a great village of little ones, and we celebrate their trips around the sun with gusto. Today's party is for a classmate of Big B's, held at the fire station down the street. What a great idea! It inspired me to reflect on some of the celebrations we've shared over the years.Big B has had some great ones himself, including a backyard water park, a playground party, a nature preserve expedition and, most recently, a bowl-a-thon. Here are some other great ideas we've enjoyed thoroughly.
  • a beach picnic
  • a local waterpark
  • a knights and princesses theme (dress up mandatory)
  • having each guest decorate pages (sent with the invitations) to be bound in a memory book for the birthday boy or girl
  • family pot-luck with a giant trampoline
  • camping in the backyard
  • a bus ride to a blueberry farm
  • a scavenger hunt
  • an obstacle course
  • a mock-pirate ship and treasure dig
  • a hawaiian luau with a shaved ice bartender
...and of course, the one constant, the piece de resistance, is the cake. Whether your children cha cha cha or not, the singing around the birthday cake is the climax of any young partygoer's experience (followed closely by the pinata). Big B and I made the same chocolate cake for little b's first birthday that we made for Big B's 3rd birthday. The recipe follows. I know, I know, there are boxed ingredients. Maybe next year I'll figure out the proportions of flour, baking powder, etc. to make it from scratch...but convenience trumps health sometimes where birthdays are concerned. And it really is a delicious cake.
INGREDIENTS:
1 (18.25 ounce) package devil's food cake mix
1 (5.9 ounce) package instant chocolate pudding mix
1 cup sour cream
1 cup vegetable oil
4 eggs
1/2 cup warm water
2 cups semisweet chocolate chips
powdered sugar for the top

Preheat oven to 350 degrees F. In a large bowl, mix together the cake and pudding mixes, sour cream, oil, beaten eggs and water. Stir in the chocolate chips and pour batter into a well greased 12 cup bundt pan. Bake for 50 to 55 minutes, or until top is springy to the touch and a wooden toothpick inserted comes out clean. Cool cake thoroughly in pan at least an hour and a half before inverting onto a plate Dust the cake with powdered sugar. Don't forget the candles!